Ok Ladies it’s your time to have a little meeting with my mind and heart. If you haven’t already go take a look at what I said to the guys, I hope you agree but now it’s time to look at you.

First order of business because I told the boys I would mention it is, don’t act like you know what’s going on when you don’t, also don’t act stupid when you know what going on. Honestly ladies if a man is talking over your head its you right to politely stop him and ask him to explain. Be confident that you can grasp the concept and be confident in how you ask, a women seeking knowledge of any kind is alway attractive.

Which leads me to my second point. BE CONFIDENT! Whatever you do, find confidence in yourself and go after it. Men notice a women who walks into a room and doesn’t have to announce herself to have her presence known. You can feel when someone walks into a room like they own it and aren’t afraid to have others in it. There is a difference between confidence and arrogance, arrogance puts others down to raise up yourself, confidence walks among the weak and tries to lift them up.

Be beautiful, yes BE beautiful, it’s a choice, a state of mind not a body type or a clothing trend. True beauty starts with belief in your own value. If you don’t believe you are worth dying for there is no way you will see the beauty that you are. Find your value, find your beauty. If you rely on someone else to make you feel beautiful the moment they are gone you will no longer feel beautiful. But if you find your own beauty then you will never lose it o matter who comes and goes from your life.

Be feminine, to be a women is to be so many things, intelligent, creative, life giving, fashionable, business savoy, resourceful, determined, gentle, affectionate, loving, scholarly, etc. etc. etc. but two things being a women is not is weak or used. Know who you are, and that you can be feminine and tough as nails all at once. The true power of being a women coming in the tension of the feminine gentleness and the stern strength. When you find how to live your, unique version of a strong women, a gentle strength then you will see real change in your life.

I am certain that there will be more to come so
Until Then…

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